11/13/2019 0 Comments
Last Friday was a great day of building Sanctuary, and the common theme of all the conversations and gatherings was this three-word refrain: Here All Along.
The day began with two morning meetings at a local cafe. That's how I approach community building - one person, one conversation, and even one cup at a time.
Conversation #1: Over a cup of tea, we planned a new Circle that will bring together adults who haven't really studied Judaism since age 13, those curious about becoming Jewish, and parents figuring out what they want to teach and model for their children when it comes to Jewish practice.
In many ways, we've all become Jews by choice, and having thoughtful companions and accessible resources to guide all the choices can make a big difference. There is actually a new literary genre that captures this very moment in American Jewish life: After feeling a limited connection to Judaism as children, more and more adults are exploring Jewish wisdom later in life and finding themselves delighted and often surprised by what they discover. Luckily for us, some of these people are accomplished writers who decided to document their journeys in book form.
The most recent contribution to this genre is "Here All Along: Finding Meaning, Spirituality, and a Deeper Connection to Life - in Judaism (After Finally Choosing to Look There)," written by Sarah Hurwitz, the former head speechwriter for First Lady Michelle Obama. Relatable and well-researched, Hurwitz's book will provide the structure and core reading material for this upcoming Circle.
Conversation #2: Next I met with a local parent who shared many wonderful ideals for the kind of Jewish community he wants for himself and his family. In addition to the importance of integrity and openness, we spoke about honoring how Judaism lives in people, not in a building. We need to remember and rejoice in the reality that we carry Judaism within us every day. It's been here all along.
Conversation 3#: An hour later at our Yoga Circle, we experienced Shabbat as an invitation to pause and take some deep breaths. Doing so can slow us down, ground us, and connect us to the Source of all Breath. Since we spend most of our days ignoring our breath, Shabbat reminds us to pay attention to this powerful tool for spirituality and insight that we carry with us every day. It's been here all along.
Three distinct conversations with the same conclusion. Why do we need Sanctuary? Because we need to create space and time to be curious about the sources of wisdom that have been here all along. Giving them our attention invites new sources of grounding, inspiration and healthy debate into our modern lives.
Sanctuary officially opened last weekend, and it was good!
It’s always challenging to decide when to start something new. Sometimes it’s smart to wait until we feel ready, and other times we need to push ourselves to jump in.
When I saw that we would be reading the opening words of Torah at the end of October, I grabbed onto those dates. The week when we relive the wonder of creation “in the beginning” felt like the exact right time to begin a new, exciting project like Sanctuary.
Each gathering of the weekend embodied a different aspect of creativity, and collectively they formed the genesis of this spiritual startup:
1. The creative process involves making separations: “God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light. God saw that the light was good, and God separated the light from the darkness” [Gen. 1:3-4].
Differentiation adds much-needed texture to our lives, and at our Shabbat Dinner Gathering, we all felt the benefits of creating space and time in our week to truly be with one another. We sat around the table, enjoyed delicious food and wine, talked about our lives, and really listened to each other. The evening felt special, because it felt separate from the rest of the week.
2. The creative process involves an element of surprise. When God said, “Let there be light,” God didn’t know exactly what would happen or how it would turn out. Only after taking the risk did God see (perhaps with a sense of relief) “that the light was good.” At our Family Gathering at Sheldrake Environmental Center, we practiced paying attention with all of our senses, and personally, I was surprised – and moved – to see how bright and beautiful the foliage had become.
3. When we intentionally stop, that can be the most creative act of all. “On the seventh day God finished the work that God had been doing, and God ceased” [Gen. 2:2]. When God paused, that completed the work of creation. At the Friday afternoon Yoga Circle, we spent an hour pausing with our bodies, holding poses for longer than we’d choose on our own. Taking a weekly pause is essential not only to our productivity but also to our happiness, and the yoga practice helped us internalize this ancient message.
4. The creative process is ongoing. Sanctuary is committed to bringing Jewish wisdom into dialogue with modern life, and gathering in community around what we care about deeply: food and cooking, political activism, meditation, music, nature, and more. Along these lines, we are eager to reimagine the path to becoming b'nai mitzvah, and here to support families through other life cycle events as well.
We are just getting started!
Rabbi Bethie Miller writes periodic reflections on the state of our world and the Jewish project. She also writes about creative ideas for combining Jewish wisdom with our modern lives. Here are links to previous ones:
What I Learned During the High Holy Days (10/16/19)
New Year, New Project - Welcome to Sanctuary (10/3/19)